I'm 23 years old and I really would love to be ina relationship -- is that a bad thing? Any suggestions to either finding one or just learn to not give a crap about it?
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Don't learn to not give a crap about it. You will skip over years of neccesary learning and maturity. When you discover you really want a man- you won't be ready for him.
Instead, be open and vulnerable. never let something that hurts you keep your heart closed. Good men want your heart... Not neccesarily your body.
Most of all... Trust your gut instincts. Trust what that still, small voice is saying. It is never wrong- and never, ever let your burning heart overpower your instincts.
One day your heart will tell you the same thing your instincts are, and that is that the man you are looking at is your one.
One more thing, God has been a light in my life, maturing me, putting me through trials and testing me. I know God has a woman for me. It would not hurt to seek His counsel for your own life.1