How to Get Laid In High School?

Question

I've already accepted I won't have a girlfriend, or at least not a meaningful relationship with anyone I'd actually care about beyond looks (believe me, I've tried and failed, hard). So, I just want to know how I can get laid with a hot girl, not even hot, just average. I've finally realized, after the one girl I really did care about rejected me, most girls are boring to talk to and conversation is basically pointless, and, if the only meaningful thing you can get out of girls is sex, how do I get that?

The-Dude-Next-Door · Accepted Answer

Dude join a sport in HS. And learn how to be a smartass from all the sport practices and games and working out with all your buddies. And do stupid stuff that makes great stories from HS, and it makes you a funny guy. Then when you go to college and live in the dorm rooms, meet some girls there. And make the girls laugh in college, because you learned how to be funny in HS with all your sport pals.

And you'll be in good shape from working out, and you'll start a life time habit of staying fit though out college. Then you will join a co-ed intramural sport in college, and you will have to mingle with girls in college. Then you can get laid when you go back to your dorm room.

The moral of the story is you need to find a sport and play it!

thetundrawolf · Accepted Answer

Just because you care about a girl does not mean she is right for you. We all grow up thiking this girl or that girl will make us happy... But the reality is that's rarely actually true.

You are young. I am thirty- five an alone.

The biggest tragedy is if you stop maturing and stay in this self indulgent rut you are in. Never growing. Never becoming a better person.

When you are my age and the fun is over, you will realize what a mistake you have made, and you will NOT be ready for a girl who will complete you.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

You sound like a fucking dick! Sex isn't the only meaningful thing you can get out of a girl and if you think it is then you don't deserve a girl this girl probably rejected you because you were being an asshole! I can tell you right now that you could easily go to a party and have meaningless sex with any drunk girl with low self esteem and low standards but as far as losing your virginity goes you should wait and just go slow with a girl that you really care about, that will make the sex 100 times better plus it will actually mean something and be memorable

Lycralady · Accepted Answer

I think your biggest problem is your conversational skills. Or more accurately put your listening skills. If all girls do is bore you then why in the world would want one of us in bed. It may behoove you to learn what girls like or want or anything. It sounds to me if you keep going the way you are you will be very frustrated for years to come.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Yikes.. How could you have expected a girl to give you something meaningful if all you're looking for is sex? I think you need to take a step back and reread your question. it's a little hypocritical. Plus let me tell you. . sex really isn't that great. its much better when you have someone there that you care about and who cares about you.

ChildishGambino · Accepted Answer

Join the football team.. or lacrosse. . white girls go cray over that shit lol maybe because all the guys on lacrosse team are like models! Lls I don't know get that swaggger of yours to a ten and show them that they haven't lived till they had somee of you. Lmaoo bwaha

Anonymous · Answer

You sound like such a dick! oh my god! girls are worth so much more than just sex. PLUS you're under 18 there will be plenty of girls in your future... that is if you ever fucking realized that woman are fucking human beings and not just things put on this earth to fuck around with. Wait till you're older, till you can actually enjoy the experience with the person you love, not just to get it over with.

Anonymous · Answer

Try to broaden your social circle. Believe me, there are probably huge sluts in your HS that you don't even know about. Start by hanging with some guys that you know are getting some but aren't in a serious relationship. Ask them about ex-gfs and flings. Then, if you find one, just be confident, be patient and sooner or later you're going to get your dick wet.

Anonymous · Answer

Wait did you just say the only meaningful thing you can get out of us is sex? What the actual fuck? Are you saying that we're only useful by fucking us and making you men feel good? Dude there's millions of girls out there. You're not even 18 yet and you're worrying about sex. Yeah, I know a lot of kids get laid now a days but I recommend you wait till like college. Talk to more people and get new friends.

Negrodamus · Answer

don't be in too much of a hurry. You can't get it back you know. Tbh, you may be too young to "finally realize" much of anything. Just chill and work on improving yourself

Dionysos · Answer

With that attitude? Pretty much just by paying for it in cash.  Remember though. You're not paying her to sleep with you. You're paying for her to walk away afterwards.  :D

CommieDearest · Answer

Don't. You'll be happy you didn't get involved in that mess until later.

Red_Dragon · Answer

I wouldn't know. I was a virgin in HS and hated HS. My guess would be to be popular. That's the easiest way.

kheserthorpe · Answer

Go to parties, flirt your ass off, escalate. No, there really isn't more to it, especially given you're in a single sex high school

Anonymous · Answer

Become someone... more specific popular. Captain of the football team, basketball team, etc Make friends with everyone. Get invited to parties. You'll get laid.

Anonymous · Answer

O my sweet Jesus. You're being so stupid right now! You're life sucks cause why? You can't lay a girl? Damn. And you're calling us shallow? You said "I don't like ugly girls" plenty of times... The fuck? That's shallow, dude. Just don't fucking try, okay? Just be gay. This is why I'm Bi. Because girls know what girls want. I'd rather be lesbian, but I just don't believe I'm into only girls. Don't be so fucking stupid. *face palms*

bubbletrouble · Answer

I would tell you to become a comical asshole or a beefy jock since young women respond to that (sexually).

front2back · Answer

If you go in with that attitude, you aren't gettin' anything.  Just being honest with you.

Anonymous · Answer

Wait till your ready, you'll know when your ready... I'm not ready either...

Anonymous · Answer

Work on your ability to connect to others and not just lust for them. And stay fit.

Anonymous · Answer

Talk to your teachers. Teachers seem to be banging everyone these days.

Anonymous · Answer

Go to a party get drunk chat her up, hope you cheer up, it's a shame you need sex to be happy

Univerise · Answer

lol just find a hoe at a club or something

Reggaemonster · Answer

You don't. Wait it out dude. College

Anonymous · Answer

Are you willing to hook up with ugly girls?

KBob93 · Answer

Are you a virgin?

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