For me, I at least simply need to have one good conversation with a girl before I ask her out to coffee or lunch or something casual.
What is your general rule of thumb?
Most Helpful Girl
Definitely a decent conversation or two. I would like to know someone enough to know that I most likely won't get raped on the date even if it's just for coffee, and that I'm not talking to an absolute complete stranger. Then the series of dates continue to to get to know the little things about you.0