.. Because its his birthday in a few weeks and he told me last night that he would really like to see me and asked if I could come/drive to his birthday event.
We live in two different states, and last week he drove 4+ hours to see me and spent the day with me (I didn't ask him to; he decided to do it on his own). But, before he left, he told me that even though he really liked me, he didn't like the idea of a long-distance relationship... and I agreed with him... so, I just figured that was that when he left and drove back home.
Basically, what I'm asking is: Does it make any sense to drive 2+ hours to see him when he's already said that he wouldn't like a long-distance relationship?
(And we were never intimate, by the way.)
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You said it yourself, he doesn't want a long distance relationship. Sounds like a friend on mine who invested one night a weekend to driving to her boyfriend's. After a month of great sex he finally told her he didn't want anything more and thanked her for coming to his place. Save your gas and your dignity.1