Okay so I've gone out with these guys that turned out to be like... submissive. Like they wanted me on top, calling them names holding them down etc... which seemed pretty hilarious since I'm pretty tiny and most were big enough to crush me easy
My problem is I prefer to be the one getting this kind of treatment. I like guys to hold my wrists or even throat etc. So I end up feeling really used and weird.
Does anyone else have this problem with guys that like femdoms?
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I don't really consider myself all that submissive, and I do kinda enjoy it. Nothing so extreme as choking or whatever, but something about a sexy girl exercising a soft form of sexual power that makes you feel helpless, wishing only to be of "service." Then again, I don't quite consider myself an alpha type personality so to speak.1