really now... why? why not let your child go out even with her friends? go out without her sister! So Im 15 and my gf is 13.5 and she has overprotective parents. we have tried twice to meet but her parents wouldn't let her go out. we've thought of plenty things to say to her parents but nothing works. i told her to let me meet her parents but she said no because if they find out we will have to break up... we are 1 month together we were vacations on a village together (not same house ofc) but now on the city things are difficult. we only managed to meet for 5 minutes once just to buy some things. the secretive meeting... i dont know what to do. when we go to this kind of talk.. about our meetings she answers with short answers like "ok" "i dont know", like that and i dont know what to say to these...
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my parents were SOOO protective up til first year university. i'm an only child with somewhat traditional chinese parents so i know overprotective.
15 is a tough age, i've been through it. but honestly my dear, what i did was i earned their trust. i would always tell my mom where i am even if it's annoying, if i go home late i would let her know and basically she could always reach me if anything. even now i'm 21, if i go clubbing or out all night i would still let her know i won't be home that night or i'm crashing at someone else's.
i know it's annoying but don't just brush her off and not reply, you'll never earn her trust that way. my parents went from completely overprotective (have to be home at 5PM) to basically mom telling me not to come home if i'm going to a club til next morning 'cause she knows she can reach me and i'm responsible enough to take care of myself0