so my boyfriend cheated on me and i dont want to let him know that i know and i didn't breakup with him yet but i wanna get back at him and make him suffer and feel what i've felt im not the bad person out here guys, please help
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Two wrongs don't make a right. The desire to 'make someone suffer' is not an altruistic feeling. You feel burnt. You should, you were. But resorting to 'revenge' is not a morally justifiable reaction.
If you feel like you're not the bad person here, then stay the course and do not become that bad person. Break up with him and move on. Takes more maturity, hurts more, but is the only morally justifiable reaction if you want to maintain the ability to say you are not the bad person.0