I usually give my boyfriend rides when he comes out of work late at night. He always decline and say no, but I do it anyways. I want to, because I want to see him. When I drop him home, we carry on enjoyable conversations and enjoy each other's company. I love sesing him, and being around him.
However, my parents keeps threatening me to stop doing that. They keep saying that it's dangerous to drive at night, and that if something were to happen, they would do something to me and him. They keep threatening me that they'll threaten and hurt him, and they keep assuming that he's using him or playing games, and a bunch of crap.
While I see the danger in driving at night, I'm not doing anything "dangerous". I'm going from one place to the next in short distance. I'm not out on the street. I'm not talking to strangers. I'm not doing anything illegal. I'm in my car, going from one place to the next, and staying parked while talking to my boyfriend. That's all I'm doing. I'm not doing anything that would endanger me. And they constantly always threaten me that they'll treat my boyfriend like shit if I don't do as they say.
I'm getting good grades, I'm working and minding my own business. Idt I'm doing anything wrong. I just want to be with my boyfriend, yet they keep pinning him as a bad image when he's not. I don't get it. He's the nicest guy who wouldn't harm a fly. He treats me well. Just help me out here.
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A little more info would help. Most importantly, are they telling you to stop picking him up from work because they believe the area is dangerous, or because they believe your boyfriend is dangerous? This distinction is important.
Another thing that would help to know is what kind of city and area in the city you live in. For example, if you're picking him up in the slums of NYC or Chicago, then picking him up is VERY dangerous.
One more thing. Why does your boyfriend tell you to not pick him up after he gets off work?1
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