I am dating a guy who is very aloof - rarely answers my texts in a timely fashion, never gives me details about his life or what he is doing, and is very non committal. I said to him, half jokingly,"You are every woman's nightmare!". He grinned a big grin, chuckled, and said "Yeah... I know... heh heh". I thought this was a bit sadistic, as if he is proud of it! A little weird. What do you think?
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He clearly isn't concerned about putting too much out there, and he likes the control. He gets what he wants without having to do much. I imagine he gets plenty of female attention, so he doesn't bother to do much. He does what he wants when he wants to. If you are around when he has time, that's fine with him. I don't suspect he is too interested in being tied down to one woman. You will hear from him when he feels like it.
Many women go for this type of attitude. It works for him, so he is fine with it. If you are cool with it, you will hear from him as it has been. If it isn't what you are looking for, its time to start looking again, because he isn't going to change.0