I want to be asexual from now on as I do not want to love women anymore since they are constantly rejecting me. How can I achieve asexuality people? (Without dismembering my hotdog of course). All men have this instinct desire to love a woman, how can I get rid off this natural yen to want to fall in love with a woman?
I want to be Asexual? But how to achieive asexuality?
What Girls Said 6
Frankly, since you're a guy--it's a bit harder to do so. As long as you're determined to reject the instinct and to override your system, you can do so. Things along the lines of overloading your mind with other goals and necessities will help you.
Personally, I never was in a relationship. I wanted to, but I didn't since I had school and friends that cared about me and needed me. I never felt the extreme need to find a bf at all. So surround yourself with friends (aka. bro-zone them). Good luck!0
You can't "become" or "achieve" it. It's something you're born being, like any other sexuality. It's like asking how to become gay or straight. It's not something you choose.0
You don't "achieve" asexuality. You just simply "are" or "are not" asexual. Also, you can be asexual and still be in love with a woman. You just don't feel the need to have a sexual relationship. Many people are asexual and actually get married.1
Being asexual is like being gay or straight. You can't choose to be it. You CAN choose to not have sex or anything like that though.0
It is your sexuality you cannot achieve a certain sexuality.0
I want to be asexual as well, & also not desire male companionship so much. If you figure out how to do this, will you please let me know. Thanks0
What Guys Said 8
I think it would be easier to learn to be more comfortable with yourself. Why do you want a woman? Is it for validation, because you feel lonely, because one desires an escape? Maybe some aspect of your life needs attention instead. The good old self esteem and confidence :)1
Chop off your nuts and part of your brain0
No. No you don't.0
You could punch yourself in the stomach everytime you think of a woman, that'd probably do some conditioning work for ya.0
You could go to the doctor and ask for something to lower sex drive, but I don't think they will help you for that. If you are really that desperate why not just contact a foreign bride agency. There are a lot of women in other countries that would love to have any man that treats them well, and can take care of them despite his looks or lack of game. http://loveme.com/0
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If you come to know, please tell me as well. Right now I'd do anything in the world to become asexual (except of course, chopping off my junk). Women don't like me at all, so I;d rather find a way to prevent myself from liking women too.1
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