I am currently still battling over mixed emotions over coming to terms with a guy I just met who I liked and thought liked me back basically not (apparently) giving a crap about me.
In the meantime I've met a few guys in my travels, exchanged info, texted a few times, and then nothing. I don't say anything weird at all and I certainly do not make a habit of texting. In fact I try to let them text first and if I don't they don't My friends keep assuring me that I am beautiful, I dress well, I'm, smart, I'm talented, I'm a wonderful person and it's their loss. I know I am a good woman and have a lot to offer a man but it seems like I can't ever meet anyone serious or who likes me the way I like them. It's always one sided with them probably just liking the way my booty looks and having 0 interest in me as a person. The part that sucks is that I get a lot of attention from guys I have absolutely NO interest in. Have at least one FB stalker who "likes" and comments on every single thing I post and I never even met him in person and I'm pretty scared to. Looks aren't everything and I wasn't all that physically attracted to the guy I was/am crushing on. Totally not my type physically but I was attracted to what I thought his personality was. But it would be nice for a change for a guy I actually like the way I liked him would feel the same way. Have never experienced this. Some guys tell me I'm weird but kinda in a cute way and others tell me I'm just a prude. Am honestly terrified to ponder what must be thought of me. Bottom line, how do some of these chicks I see have men, sometimes pretty great catches, and I'm supposedly all these things and can't even get a single freaking date with someone I'm into? Try very hard not to come off as needy or desperate and it's almost like that's what they expect.
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Such rude responses! I think everyone (myself included) has been having a little whine about our romantic options these days and that negativity may have spilled over onto this discussion. At least, that's what I suspect. What I know is that you haven't done anything here to deserve such rudeness. Try to ignore the negativity, okay?
With that said, I noticed that you said you've met a few men in your travels, one drove 3.5 hours to see you, but you've had trouble getting a single date with a man you're into. Well, it would be hard for any man to take you on a date when he would need to drive several hours to get to you. Even for men who are willing to do that, they would know that a long term relationship would involve that kind of driving for years to come. That's asking a lot, and it would be easier for them to date local women. You would do well to adopt the same perspective and focus your relationship efforts on local men.
To give you information that would be more helpful, I need more information about what kind of men you want to attract, whether you play hard to get, how you play hard to get, what kind of clothes you wear, and anything else that you think might be relevant.0