I guy I have been on 3 dates with is one year divorced from his wife of 13 years. She is the one who wanted the divorce and I can tell it hit him hard. I asked him if he was still in love with her and he said "yeah, on some level I kind of am". I have had bad experiences dating men who were newly divorced but to admit he is still in love with her? This could be a heartache waiting to happen. Should I cut my losses here?
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Being he is 'Newly divorced,' Anyone he would he would hook up with right now would merely be a Rebound. And also being they have History together, had been married for Way over 10 years, he most likely isn't done licking his wounds Nor pining and whining. I see a few Red Raised signs here. And apparently you do yourself.
Go with your Gut feeling. This one has some left over feelings And maybe more than he wants to admit, and like you say-------It hit him hard. And as long as he is still Missing the kissing, which in many Divorces is natural, especially Long term marriages, there May even be this case, which is also popular Nowadays----A friend with benefits factor with her, while hooked at the hip with you.
It may happen, it may not, and of course Life is one big gamble to begin with. It's your choice, your call, and with your 'bad experiences' from the past with this sort of Card, nothing has changed if you Continued playing Russian Roulette with this Romance.
Good luck. xx1
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