I am now at a point where I know I need to choose between these two guys I have been seeing, I met one about 10 months ago, we met we had both just gotten out of something and we agreed we were not ready for anything serious, during the holidays he got back with and I dated other people this is when I met guy 2 we hit it off right away and things were going great but I do not get to see him often because of his work schedule, and then about two months in guy 1 pop up and wants to see me I hesitated up until like two months ago after getting frustrated with not being able to see guy 2 often. Now they are both in my life and I am getting to the point where I am getting feelings for them both guy 1 has been up front with me from then the get go and has been good to me for his type I did not expect it from him, and then guy 2 I get butterflies in my stomach and we talk for hours he is independent self confident and I have feelings for him to. My head is all mixed up in one way guy 1 is good because he has been there in ways but I know in the long run he could potentially destroy me and guy two I can see myself with him I know it will be a long road I feel he is good but there is so much unsaid with him. What should I do?
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look for who can provide a long term "commitments" (father/husband material (if you wanna settle down at ur age), who is capable of fulfilling your needs, obviously the guy who is less of a jerk is a better choice, or who is less selfish/stuck-up/anger prone/drama queen/etc... who is more RELIABLE and HONEST. Its those qualities you should pick first. not looks or things that are short term in that sense. 20 years from now ull all be wrinkly lol brains over brawn I guess. who makes you laugh? who cares about making you happy? who takes the effort? etc0