I know both men and women have their own problems and difficulties regarding dating. But when it comes to 'impressing' someone of the opposite gender, women certainly have it easier.
Men usually know precisely what they want from a woman (such as looks, personality, status etc. or a combination of these), so they only approach women who fit their description of a desirable women. So women don't really need to go out of their way to impress men, because the men who desire a woman of their 'type' will approach them anyway, and other men wouldn't bother with it. Hence, whatever women do to impress men, it will not usually change the opinion of men who may or may not want to approach them.
But most women don't really know what to expect from a partner. They're really confused about it, and often mix things up. Even if a man is able to 'attract' a woman, it may only turn out to be an illusion because the woman often doesn't know what she wants from a partner and ends up saying 'you're not my type' or something similar after a while. Initially she may be under the illusion that she's 'impressed', but soon realizes that this man isn't the 'type' she would want because she herself is confused about what she wants.
So what do you people think? Both guys and girls here are most welcome to vote and answer!
P. S. Please refrain from making personal comments, because this is a general question and not related directly to my life. Also, I'm making it clear that this is my personal opinion based on my observation, so kindly stick to a healthy discussion instead of bashing me for whatever reason.
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Most Helpful Girl
I dont know girls do a lot to try and attract men. Makeup , tight jeans, heals, dresses, doing our hair , keeping nice and tidy, not tooting , not eating like a pig, and much more to try and impress the oppisite sex.
This doesn't really explain me cause im not like full on lets im press guys but a lot of women I know do hours on end of primp and press to impress a guy. And it doesn't always work.
It can be hard.
Girls have it hard sometimes too not all women are naturally attractive and they put loads of effert to make a man into her.
And again I state not all women do this including me but this is what I gather from other women who I know.
In my opinion guys are either attracted or not. And women can be persuaded which I think in a way makes it hard for females to attract men.0
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Most Helpful Guy
What does a woman have to do, to have an attractive body? Starve herself so she's no longer obese, and she's good enough.
That won't work for a man, and it takes a lot more effort to look in good physical condition. Even then, if he's below average height 75% of women won't be interested.
Men aren't much interested in a woman's income or material possessions. A man could spend years or decades getting all that together, before he'll impress some women.
Women don't even need much social skill, because they expect the man to do all the approaching.
If the tables were turned, the average woman would have a hard time trying to impress any man.0