Hey everyone :) I'm a senior in high school and almost 18. I've never really been outgoing and mostly keep to myself unless I'm comfortable with someone. This hasn't exactly been helpful when it comes to meeting guys. I would really like to make friends with some more guys and possibly find a guy I'd like to date, but there's no way I can just go up to someone. Appearance-wise, I'm not bad looking. I've never really been comfortable with my appearance but everyone always says I'm really pretty. I'm in fairly good shape and have long red hair, brown eyes, and (finally, just got braces off a while ago) a nice smile, I guess. Do guys normally approach shy/fairly quiet girls? And if not, what should I be doing differently?
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I don't think guys know if you want to be approached. But girl, you are not powerless. You should take the offensive, seek out guys and flirt and talk. Find a guy you know is single and perhaps shy like you. then ask him out. He will be super happy if he thinks you're cute, he'll be passive (and missing out) if he doesn't. Homecoming should be arriving soon... use that to your advantage.
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