Okay, so, basically, I told this girl I'm friend with my feelings for her (dumb, I know, but I was already in the middle of a break down it was trying to contain), so, I want to know if I can come back from that. I know, I should've asked her on a date or something, whatever. Can I come back from it, I mean, she tried talking to me the next day anyway, and certain things happened to make me think I might still have a chance. I even think she probably liked me when we met, so, can I fix this? In other words, yes, I'm in the zone, and I need to break out. I can't wait around for time to heal my wound, I need advice on how to fix this and win her affection. Also, if you say I am in denial, then I will remain in denial about this forever, because giving up isn't what I do. That or I just find some sad desperate girl, pretend I like her, and dump her after saying I never gave a shit, that would probably make me feel better.
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You just have to simply move on from it. Just act like you were before you confessed your feelings to her. You can't make someone like you. That takes time. If you keep trying to get her to like you, you'd be straining the friendship more than you should. It's better to let feelings just evolve, or else you'd be pushing her away.
And don't be a dickhead by pretending to like a girl. Don't mess with people's feelings like that. Karma is a bitch, so it'll bite you in the ass hard if you use someone. How would you like it if some girl used you. Hell, your friend could have pretended to like you, and use your sorry ass. It can play both ways.
Point of the matter is, you just don't force someone to like you. If she doesn't, then get the fuck over it. Big deal. You're probably still in high school, so you'll definitely meet more girls down the line. So chill, dude. Not the end of the world.0
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