Ok I'll admit that if a taller guy walks by I suddenly feel like falling in love with him but if their is a shorter (than me) guy and he's super cute then yea I still like them but it feels a little different. This is based on height completely and not including the factors of personality which is important also. So the question WHY DO WE HAVE INSTINCTS TO ALWAYS GO WITH HEIGHT? It's a bad habit and I'm trying to break it but I will date someone shorter or taller but I prefer if they are taller than me which I hate myself for but I do.
- Height means everything to meVote A
- It depends more on the personVote B
- I don't even knowVote C
- I'm a guyVote D
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I'm pretty sure I'm looking for shorter females because I assume that if they are taller then they would not be interested because females tend to look for taller guys in general because "they can't feel properly feminine because they can't wear their high heels and be shorter" or some stupid shit.
To be honest, I'm not sure why THEY'RE so obsessed with finding someone taller. My initial preference was someone who was exactly the same height as me, but some girls can be incredibly prickly about "but then I can't wear my high heels". Honestly, now that I think about it, that should just be a cue that someone should just be avoided rather than seen as a viable partner option.
Why? Because if you need to wear high heels and find SOMEONE ELSE who is TALLER than you to feel "complete" and "aligned with your femininity", then your lack of independence is nauseating. "Femininity" in itself is such a joke to begin with, don't people ever grow out of these petty gender concepts? It's appealing when you're like 7, even then it's because you don't know better.
I guess we are indoctrinated with an ideal, and people tend to not "unlearn" it. Cultural concepts are our enemy.0