Women are quick to state that a man's money or potential of his ability to make money plays "no factor" in her decision in being with him for the short or long haul and that a prenup is an insult to their "looooooove for him".
Well my respond to women who make this statement is: Tell that to the idiots who would actually believe you! Because I don't believe you!
When choosing a mate, women factor in money to the same degree that men factor in physical beauty when choosing a mate. They hate prenups because it forces out THE TRUTH and their secret motives when choosing a man who has money or who has the potential to make a lot of money in the future. And then when a man's does want a prenup, women are quick to use verbal shaming tactics by saying things like:
-You don't trust me?
-Are you planning that we will get divorce?
As a man my respond to those statements are: MEN DON'T PLAN TO FAIL, WE PLAN TO WIN, AND IF YOU REALLY LOVE US FOR THE MAN WE ARE AND NOT FOR THE MONEY, "THEN SIGN THE PRENUP".
MEN!!! Notice how I used their own shaming tactics against them with my respond.
Men be smart. Use what God blessed your brain with: Logic and Strategy. MEN STOP LETTING YOUR EMOTIONS AND LETTING WOMEN COLOR YOUR JUDGEMENT IN SEEING SITUATIONS IN A LOGICAL , STRATEGIC, AND PRACTICAL WAY. If a woman truly loves you for who you are and not for your money, then she shouldn't have a problem with signing a prenup. Its that simple!!! No if, ands, or buts about it!!!
Note: I've never been married. So I'm not one of these bitter divorce men who got taken for half his stuff in divorce court. But too many men nowadays are getting burnt in divorce court and sent to the cleaners. I'm completely against marriage. It destroys men. Divorce and Family Court laws are anti-male. But if you do get married, be smart! Make her a$$ sign a prenup before you marry her.
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You are spot on, QA! Men have allowed themselves to be controlled by women for decades and it's time to put an end to it. The fact is that men control the resources in this world and always will. Marriage is nothing more than a tool for women to control those resources via men. The ONLY way women can survive in this world, even today, is when men make it possible.
Men, don't allow yourselves to be so easily coerced by females. Sex is the ONLY tool by which women control men, and that can only happen if men allow it to. Without men, women are dead, period.
A prenup is essential for any man considering marriage today. Women themselves have made it so.0