I mean I know I'm not no Brad Pitt looks wise but I've been told by a few girls that I'm sweet. But are looks super important? Could you look past someones looks if they had the personality you was looking for?
And yes I know there needs to be a attraction physically. But if you had an attractive guy/girl with no personality then a guy/girl with a good personality but not amazing looks who would you choose?
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Oh noooo, again with the personality crap? You people talk like there's one archetypal "good personality". No, there's not. Good personalities come in all forms possible, it's all down to personal preference. You'd think a kind, chivalrous, agreeable man has a "good" personality, right? Of course. But some women may not find him appealing as a partner. I know I don't. To me, good personality in a partner is about assertiveness, being down-to-earth and treating me like an equal. Some girls may find such guys cold and unemotional, but I'd feel trapped with such a man as my partner. I know you're gonna accuse me of "only going for jerks", but it's way more complex than that. There's no jerk/good guy divide in the real world, it's all a mixed bag.
Asker, if you're of the meek and kind variety, please take no offense. As I've said, many girls prefer this sort of person. I'm sure you're an amazing man to have around, but you're not quite what I myself am looking for (disregard for a second the fact that I'm merely 17, I'm talking possibilities here) in a romantic partner. You WILL find a girl who's crazy for you and your qualities, men who are actually pleasant and kind are few and far between these days.0