So I've been dating a guy for around three months. I like him a lot and the time we spend together. We still haven't slept with each other mainly because I wanted to take it slow being a virgin and all. We fool around, but that's about it. I sleep over he makes me breakfast. We still go out and get dinner and I feel very well taken cared of when I'm with him. I've met his friend and all that. However, we haven't had any talk declaring exclusivity and I feel insecure and unstable with whatever it is we have. Recently my roomate's family was in town and she introduced him as my boyfriend. I asked him if it made him uncomfortable after and he said no.. but I am still hesitant. I don't want to give someone myself... someone I'm not sure about even though I would if I knew he wasn't going to leave right after. I am just confused. Any advice here? Please do tell me your opinions!
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Has he given you any reason to distrust him?
It's a bit unfair to assume the worst. Your concerns are completely understandable though, so maybe you should first talk with him about the state of the relationship since it seems to be the initial point of confusion for you.
Clear that up, continue to think it over, and I'm sure you'll find for yourself what his intentions are.0