How people find right girl/guy?
In element school i liked 1 girl but now she is just too different. We never talked much.
In high school same thing
In university there are like 40 girls and 3 guys in same class. It looks like 70-80% girls (age 21-24) has boyfriends and i don´t any girl to be my girlfriend Im shy and lonely most of the time. I don´t want just "random girl". How people find girl or guy? I rarely go to party because im all the time alone. I watch cinema movies alone. I don´t have any real friends. I don´t know... im 21 year old... im so worried.
Most Helpful Girl
I'm seventeen and I haven't had a serious relationship yet. I was always available, but was extremely introverted and didn't know any guys, so I wouldn't get asked out of course (only by the creepy stalkers who already knew basically everything about me... Ew no). I decided my junior year of high school to concentrate on improving myself and building greater confidence, self-esteem, and sense of self, and wait until college to date anyone-And less than a week later a guy was into me. I read a study about OkCupid (dating site)'s messaging, and people who had stronger personalities/sense of self were messaged more often, and rated as very attractive, even though they also were more frequently rated as very unattractive.
Maybe also hang out with some people? Is there an activity you like that has a club at your school? It's relatively easy to talk to people with whom you share the same interests. You don't have to spend time with other people (contrary to popular belief, some people actually like doing things alone sometimes and that's perfectly okay, and being shy isn't a bad thing either; it's just different), but getting to know a few more people is never a bad thing :)
You sound like a really nice guy (and kind of remind me of myself since I'm such an introvert, an INFJ to be exact)! I also don't have any super close friends either :) I hope you find someone super wonderful to have a relationship with :) if there's anything more that I can do to help let me know! :)0