So my little sister (18) had sex for the first time this weekend. Im happy for her and the guy she did it with was very nice, and i personally really liked him.
Im all for the sex part, she is young and singel so why not. But even if im happy for her i'm kinda jealous. Because she is just happy for the sex and she isn't looking for anything serious, like i am. I wish i could just have sex with a guy and dont expect anything from him. I really want a relationship or at least date a guy before i even think of having sex with him, just because i know my self and i will get my heartbroken. i'm a virgin and i have never had a boyfriend, but im ready for sex, and for that i need a boyfriend. So i dont know what to do, i can never find a guy that i would like to have as a boyfriend or date. I get approach by a lot of guys, so its not my looks, but they dont really do anything for me. They are either very demanding or very pushy or not really that attractive And i dont know if its really my own fault, like i have to high standards or because i expect a guy to do that or do this. And when i see a guy that i really find attractive i never approach them just because i can never come up with anything not very random thing to say to them. So what can i do? for how i see it now im going to be a virgin forever, not that that is a bad thing, but i really want to have sex.
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Well if you're tired of waiting, I'm sure you can find someone to have sex with you. Like the other guy said, it's much easier for a girl to get laid than it is for a guy. I don't think I'd recommend having a one night stand though, especially not with a stranger. You want to be with someone you know/trust at least a little bit. Maybe pick one of your guy friends and see if they'd be willing to be friends with benefits with you. Obviously let him know you're a virgin and make sure you take the proper precautions (pill, condom, that the guy is free of any stds/stis). There really isn't a right choice, you've got to make your own decision on this, just make sure you're smart about it. You DON'T want to get pregnant or catch any diseases.0