So my boyfriend and I have been on and off for about 3 years now.. Most of the times it wouldn't work because I we both had to much pride.. recently, we've really worked on it.. it's better and throughout the years he's always talked about us getting married. He has always planned a future with me, and I'm not why this time it feels so different like it can happen, but I want a promise ring. We live an hour and a half away from each other (different colleges). I want to be able to feel that comfort, and I want it in the form of a pretty little ring lol. i want to be able to hear him say it when I look at it.. so, questions are, 1.) is this bad of me? to want one? and 2.) should i just come out and tell him or wait for it to be his idea?
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You can hint it to him and see what happens to ensure that he does it 100% willingly and not because of being "pressuried" by you. What is more important is whether you really live in his heart and not the material thing. If rings/wedding rings can promise happiness, there would be no more break-ups and divorces in the world :D
I wish you happiness. GOD luck :)1