I've been with my bf for about a month and he brings sex up quite often. He says he wants something real and doesn't play games but idk, i'm scared he'll leave me if I agree to have sex with him. How do I know if he's just using me for it?
Most Helpful Guy
omg, you and like every woman throughout the history of friggin' time... take a number and get in line... seriously
This is a woman's test in life, READING PEOPLE, and QUICKLY.
Every time a woman is like, "*cries* and omg, I can't believe he hurt me, and like..." I can't I honestly can't. I zone out. Because in my head I'm thinking, "You're such a dumb c*nt. Yes. That's what you are, a dumb c*nt. Because if you weren't a c*nt, you'd actually pay attention to how people actually are instead of how you want them to be, and if you weren't dumb, you'd actually have the mental capacity and emotional intelligence to read a person in at least 1-2 weeks of dating them, and talking on the phone with them, and otherwise socially interacting with them. So, if you can't tell within 1-2 weeks whether you should say goodbye to him or start feeling comfortable enough to have a real relationship with him, then you deserve every single bit of what follows next, as nature's personal tailor-made punishment to you, until you learn. You're either going to have sex with the wrong guy in 2-4 weeks, and get hurt, or... you're not going to have sex with the right guy after 2-3 months and he's going to walk away from your life. So, you're either going to have a type 1 or type 2 statistical error, and you can't swipe your finger on the biometric reader a second time, guys don't work like that. You messed up either through a wrongful acceptance or wrongful rejection. Get better at turning those wrongful acceptances into rightful rejections, and turning those wrongful rejections into rightful acceptances, and you'll stop being hurt and alone! It's so friggn' simple! But instead, you're going off on a rant on how men are horrible and a "real man" who "really loved you and cared" would wait around for you like a knight in shining Gucci or Hugo Boss instead of accepting blame with yourself and starting to work on the real issue here... you."0