We dated for a month, we were pretty intimate, kissing, touching , i thought things went well, she went on a holiday and things changed after that. she hardly speaks to me, sometimes completely acts like i dont even exist and sometimes she gives me a look. She doesn't ignore me, she writes back when i write her something but we end up having short conversations, i know she has time to write to others, ( we do have a small communication problem since she hardly speaks any other language then polish, bit of german ) . I do think she was seeing someone before we spended time with each other, and i suspect she is seeing this kid/ guy again. He is 6 years younger, he barely turned 18 . she has a kid , she is 24 wtf could she possible want from a person like that. It upsets me that she doesn't want to be honest with me. I told her we need to talk, and she does show up but no results. i really love her, what can i do. should i get angry to her, knowing she is used to jerks. maybe she will think different of me then. I can't figure out why she stopped initiating conversations with me, why doesn't want to see me anymore, its all out of the blue. she gave me various reasons that we can't be together, she acted like she wanted to have sex, and she did come a few time, but we didn't have any actual sex. she did shave herself between her legs, . i find this all very strange, maybe personal hygiene but why act like you want to have sex but refuse to have sex. what do you think, should i show her in a respectable way that i won't tolerate these stupid mind games, it really angers me, she doesn't open up. and whats up with this 18 year old kid, im 26, i have a nice job, treated her well, maybe thats the mistake i made. i should have been a jerk to her, would it make a difference if i show your once and for good that im sick and tired of these stupid mind games, and that she needs to grow up. what can i do, my parents think she maybe has sex for money. i really find this far fedged
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You have answered many of your Own questions, ReneDS, and being she is just '18,' you're much older, more Mature with a lot to offer Some girl out there, unfortunately I don't believe it will be This little rose spud.
She is probably back with the boy from her past, isn't 'Woman enough' to man up to You that she Is, and is now putting you on her 'Slightly some' pay no list as a helpful hint to lay off, giving you lame excuses, forget her and don't bother with her again.
I see all the signs that her Red flag is raising here, and as much as it hurts, is infuriating of not Only 'stupid mind games,' but playing 'Head games' with you to boot, she obviously doesn't want to 'Play' anymore. She is what I call a cock teaser, and most likely Liked you enough at the time to get heated with you, but better thought to leave well enough alone by Not going all the way...
Move on, sweetie. She needs to 'Grow up,' you're right about that. You deserve better, have so much to give someone who can appreciate What you have to Give and someone like yourself as well. Don't waste your time and efforts on a wet nose who you will probably never figure out, although to be quite honest----I believe you have and just don't know it.
Good luck. xx1
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