So... Long story short: I was recently friendzoned by my crush (about a month ago) and it felt horrible. I've never felt so embarrassed and stupid in my entire life. (I fought for her, she knew how I felt and she played me until she decided to friendzone me)
And now there's this other girl that literally walks by me every single day. She's absoluteley gorgeous. She glances at me and sometimes smiles but I guess now I kinda fear rejection and I'm having a hard time approaching her. Any advice on how to ask her out and go around this fear? Just stop her and chat her up? I know I won't lose anything if I try, I'm just having a hard time taking that chance...
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Well rejection happens to most people unfortunately so comfort yourself in knowing you're not alone and that is something normal too. The great news is that it becomes easier with time. After a few rejections it still is painful but you learn to take it in your stride and I personally see it as me being one step closer to the right person for me. I think best way to overcome these fears is to just remind yourself that you're firstly good enough and know what type of qualities you have. The problem isn't you, the problem was that girl who just didn't feel attraction. That doesn't mean no one else will feel attraction for you.. I'm sure you've met girls who you also weren't much attracted to to romantically... everyone has because no one can be romantically attracted to every single person out there.
Next time you see this girl, smile at her and make eye contact. If she does the same then try to catch her alone some time and take things from there. If she rejects you, then hey, you tried and that means you're brave and secondly as I said, you are 1 step closer to the right girl. I know about rejection and it hurts.. I've experienced it so many times now :( But as I Say, it becomes a lot better with time and you should never think there's something wrong with you. Unfortunately everything that is worth having comes at a price and when it comes to love, that price is getting hurt sometimes. But that doesn't mean you won't find that special person... patience.0