So i have been seeing this girl and before she went on her holiday she was ready to dive into a relationship with me problem being she went to ibiza and her e wouldn't leave her alone and she slept with him!! she was honest and told me this we talked about it and me and her were not serious so i don't have a problem with it !! the problem now is that her ex who is a nasty person has put on this act that he has changed and her feelings have come back for him but at the same time she has feelings for me and doesn't know what she wants !! which after thinking about it i have decided to tell her that we should just stay friends while she works out what she wants, is this the right thing to do will she miss what we had when her ex does decided to be an nasty person again? after i told her we should stay friends she text me saying "that means a lot i do have feelings for you and its not that I'm playing you about i have been as honest as i can and tried to explain how i feel i think its just come at a bad time!" i responded by saying i understand and i am trying to make this situation easier for you until you make your mind up!! which she said "think i need to decide what i want on my own before i put anymore confusion on myself or anyones emotions" i have completely fell for this girl so please can you not put on here to move on and find someone else because i can't be bothered to go looking elsewhere is there any girls out there who have been in the same situation that can give me some advice on how you sorted your head out ! and do you think i have done the right thing by backing off a bit i am still going to be her friend because we were great friends before but i am no longer going to make the effort with her please please please help thank you guys !!
She can't choose between me and her ex… what can I do?
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