Yes I'm asking similar to one of those questions, that are disliked. I'm a bit at my wits end here---
I honestly don't want to date my friend bc I'm not attracted to him in that way. He keeps trying to insinuate being a couple or dating. I think he says that bc he's one of those people who don't know how to be to themselves, that he constantly has to be in a romantic relationship. He'll try to bash every guy I find attractive, bash my habits/saying I have various personality issues/flaws and yet ask why I don't find him attractive or want to date him. So a few of my friends suggested I date him for a couple weeks so he'll not want to have feelings like this towards me anymore. I just can't do that to myself and him. That'd be a long sad torturous couple weeks. Is there another way I can get him not to feel this way without dating?
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Probably not, but I Do Suggest that you sit this Serious soap star down and have a 'Serious' Convo about How you feel, what to expect and Not, and tell him you just want to stay friends till the end, and you are honestly Not into anything More at this time.
He may get a broken nose, this little pup, put on a few dramatics to try and change your mind, but don't let him 'Soft soap' You into Anything Any longer than just this Moment in time right now, as you are nipping this in the bud and letting him down easy that you have nothing to Plant besides a Non "romantic relationship.'
Topple the Torture, put an end to the madness. If you stoop for This, then you will always have to Stoop whatever Poop he decides to throw your way. He's rude and crude and very demeaning, selfish as he tries to win his Damsel in Distress here with your so-called 'Flaws' that he most likely finds a turn on.
And if he walks away and feels as though he is in the doghouse, this hopeless romantic who May start snubbing you, No longer sniffing around you, then you would have seen that he was just this sore loser, and put him on your list of fair weather friends who have come and gone. He's barking up the wrong tree, he needs to sit and obey and stop being so------Romantically Ruff.
Good luck. xx0