I've just been reading around this site , I'm just unsure if you guys are serious or just being nice. I just want to know what you really think , feel free to go anonymous.
So lets say in looks your and 8/9 or even a 7 . Would you date someone who is less than a 5 in your opinion?
When people say personality etc I just think if their personality is great but not so attractive why not be friends?
But if one was a 6 with a good personality and another was a 9 but shitty attitude I'll def go for the 6 .
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People generally date people who are of similar levels of attractiveness. I think its kind of like a point system. We judge people based on their looks, status (financial), and personality and place a certain amount of weight in each category. (Im just going to pull these figure out of my ass and make a generalization). Each individual has their own ranking system but on average Id say Guys put 40pts in looks,10pts in status, and 60pts in personality. (guys usually don't care about a girls status as long as she is somewhat independent. We generally don't care if a girl makes 6 figures.) People access themselves according to this point system to give themselves a score and strive to find someone who has an equal or greater score. That's why people say there are leagues, its about having equal point or bringing the same value to the table. Example: Say Girl A is a 9 in looks,10 in status, and 7 in personality. And Girl B has 5 in looks, 10 in status, and 9 in personality). Girl A's score would be:Looks (.9x40=36), Status (1x10=10), Personality (.7x50=35) Total (36+10+35=81) Girls B's score would be Looks (.5x40=20), Status (1x10=10), Personality (.9x50=45) Total (20+10+45=75). So Girl A has a higher overall score according to this particular guys system. Obviously we don't actually make a chart but this is my way of explaining it to you. If you are average in the looks department you really have to have a better personality. And if there is a person who is more attractive with an equal or better personality then they will be chosen over you. This same system can apply to guys but I think girls put 20pts in looks,30pts in status and 50pts in personality.(once again Im just making a generalization). Its not about just looks or just personality, its the whole picture and generally people date people who they perceive to be their equals. I can't prove anything I've just said, It is merely my opinion, so take this post with a grain of salt.0