I'm too insecure to get naked in front of my boyfriend? HELP?

My boyfriend always asks me why I don't let him see my body. I just feel insecure and afraid that he won't like it. Do men really judge naked women? What are some turn offs- dark spots? Acne? Etc?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • No we don't. I'd recomend talking with him about it. Explain how you feel and that you're insecure of your own body. If he cares he'll take it into consideration and let you take the time you need.

    There are turn-on's and turn-off's for everyone, but generally they vary. He's dating you, so that alone is a HUGE turn-on to finally be with you. Also confidence REALLY helps. Look like you like yourself, and guys will "feel" this in the way you behave, and that is VERY sexy!! Just trust yourself.

    And come on, it can't be that bad, can it? I'm sure he'll like you :)

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What Guys Said 5

  • Start with lights off, then you can gradually have them stronger. Women are WAY more observant and critical of themselves than Men. Don't stress about it.

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  • if you want some really helpful question post here some pic of yourself and than we will tell you. lol

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  • Tell him that, And if he cannot make you feel better about yourself enough to make yourself feel okay after you telling him that then maybe he isn't right for you?

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  • Honestly I don't judge, maybe you should post up a picture. Have you tried to get rid of your acne or dark spots.

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  • I have always appreciated a nude woman , big small and medium, you have unfounded insecurity

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What Girls Said 5

  • Guys really don't judge a naked women. They pretty much know what you'll look like naked, or at least the important parts of it like your general level of fitness & boob size, when your'e still fully clothed. By the time you're actually naked, they'll be so overcome by a rush of hormones, I really doubt they'll notice anything in a negative light.

    If you want to become more comfortable with it yourself, try easing into it slowly. Try to keep most lights off, keep your bra on most of the time, and occasionally you can even leave your top on. As you let yourself relax with this and begin enjoying sex more, you'll at the same time become more confident in yourself through positive reinforcement.

    Good luck. :)

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  • accept your flaws. he may not look at them the same way you do. if you were as bad as you think, he wouldn't be there. that should say a lot already.
    the penis kinda has a mind of its own too so you get a automatic +5 when you're naked lol

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  • I know I'm not a dude but this is what I think. The minute clothes start shedding their mind goes blank and blood rushes to their groin. Unless you have a third arm, I doubt anything you see will bug him. I took off my shorts while me and this guy were hooking up and he stopped mid-sentence. Let him see. He's asking because it bothers him, and he cares. He probably doesn't see anything wrong with you. Here's a test: Next time he gets naked try to recall anything you found wrong with him. Can't recall? That's because everyone judges themselves twice as hard as anyone else. Chill! you're perfect:P

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  • If you are in a good shape and weight, that you must know it if you are, just take it off and face it. you will cover your body with your hands maybe in the first moments if you do but once he sees it and gets close it will get better and you will free yourself.

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  • Dim the lights to begin with if you're that uncomfortable

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