I've been messing around with my best friend for a long time now. We both don't talk to people of the opposite sex. Everyone said he liked me. We got in a pretty verbal fight when I was drunk, which I regret, and I can't really remember what happened. After that time he started being weird, and it took awhile to patch things up, but we did. He tells me he loves me, and that I'm his best friend, but when the topic of dating comes up he says he only likes me as a friend, but his actions say otherwise. I don't know like I really think he likes me deep down, and I just don't know if I should trust my instincts, or just pursue another guy. We've had this talk and he claims that he used to like me before the fight, only a little bit, but now he doesn't. Even though it still seems like he does. Am i just being a girl, and reading into things?
I really need advice?
What Guys Said 2
What''re you doing right now?
What've you done in the past?
Messing around == Fucking? Sucking? Kissing?
He may like you, but maybe only as a friend (ie: he realized when he fought with you, that that's not something he wants with someone he's dating). But its difficult to tell from what you've told us.
Mostly, I think you're over-analyzing things, like a girl.0
Maybe he just wants a bed buddy and physical pleasure. The question is, what do YOU want?0
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