So say you just started dating someone and you realize you don't like him/her as much as you'd like, approximately how many dates into the relationship do you normally realize this and what do you do - do you end it or see where it goes?
Just from observation I have noticed that some couples I know date but at the same time they're not 100% into each other. So I wonder do they date each other due to lack of options, scared to risk breaking up, etc.
Personally, if I was not interested in the guy I'd end it and move on. Why waste each others time, right?
One more question:
Do you always feel excited or look forward to seeing your SO? If not, when did this enthusiasm/excitement end?
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If I'm not into it, or think there are way more negatives than positives, then I'll end it. I don't want my time wasted, nor do I want to string someone along.
Depends how intense dates are before I can figure this out, and how many mind-games/BS they're pulling. If they're straightforward, and know themselves, then this can go pretty quickly. If I have to pull teeth, if they're lying about stuff and trying to manipulate me, then it can take longer.0