I went on my first date ever and we spent about 5 hours the guy was touchy feely at first i kinda felt awkward but i didn't stop him. Then by the end he grabbed me and pulled me close and leaned in to kiss me.. i backed off and said no no eww not my first kiss.. I don't know why i said that but it just came out of my mouth! wtf! then he tried many times and he wanted me to touch him down there.. and i just couldnt i kinda felt weird.. was i being awkward or normal? and is he a good guy.. i m not sure how this is supposed to work since it was my first date ever! so please help me out guys?
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No its not a turn off, actually its very respectful and admirable..
What's a turn off is if the girls too easy, I try not to sleep with my dates till the 3rd, I've had several of dates where they'd try to get invited to my apt from the first date, or seduce me sexually.. I don't call them back,
If he's looking for something more, he will respect u as a women and respect ur actions till YOU invite him first0