I suck at dating. I'm willing to admit it. I started later than usual, and I haven't had enough experience to feel confident. But I've been on a ton of dates in the last couple years, and I feel a little better about it.
I've been on a few great first dates, but I find a way to mess it after the first date. Either I text too much or not enough or don't say the right thing or something.
I went on a great first date tonight. So what am I supposed to do now? Do I text tomorrow? Call tomorrow? Wait longer? Should I be flirty? Aggressive? Play it cool? How soon is too soon to try and go out again? Too late?
Basically, I need all kinds of help on what to do after the first date. I'm good at getting the first date. The first date goes well. Now what?
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Yeah don't go overboard! Just text or call her maybe a day or two later and say something like "Hey, I had a really great time the other night. I'd really like to see you again!" and go from there. There's no special number of days you should wait between dates either - you could go out again tomorrow if you wanted to, lol. But you should try and see her again within the next couple of weeks at least. You could tell her you'd like to see her next week to set things in motion.0
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