I got matched up with a guy in the city I'm currently in and he seems pretty cool and nice - with flirts of course because it is Tinder. He gave me his number to text him and I did and now he is asking to "hang out"/"meet up" this week because its the "only week" he is in town until he leaves for a few weeks for work. I feel that this is kind of sketchy and I did do a Facebook search and it says he is in a relationship
1) how can I ask if he has a girlfriend without being direct about it?
2) I feel that this is sketchy and I have tried pushing him away but it doesn't seem to work.
3) I'm "18" (turning 18 in october) and he's 21... how safe is this?
4) what is the process I should follow if I DO want to meet up with him? I've heard about skyping but can someone go more in depth?
Sorry for such a long question, but I just don't want to be catfished. Thanks! (:
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Always meet in a public place for the first time, so if you don't like him or he is not who he seemed you can get away easily. 18-21 is fine, honestly the first girl I met up with was 16 when I was 21 (honestly didn't realise how young she was at first). That is the only girl I have ever met from the web, and I found her on a different site not tinder. I have no luck with tinder at all. If anyone lives near Manchester :) give me a buzz :)0