Hey, I'm a 16 years old girl and I wanted to ask you if I should tell this boy that I really really like him and that I would want to be in a relationship with him.
3 years ago I've already told him once that i've got a crush on him, but at this time i was only 13 and he 14 an I don't even know if he remembers this. He was really surprised and he actually said that we could try, but I had the impression that he didn't mean it and he only said that because we were friends and he didn't want to hurt me, but he had no crush on me.
Now three years later, we both were on a party a month ago and stayed there overnightwith a few other people. We were both a little bit drunk and when I was lying on the couch and he came to me and hugged me and we ended up in a spoon position. Then I went in bed alone to sleep a little and when I was on the couch the next morning he did the same thing and we were lying there for two hours or more. Now it's the summer holiday and he didn't text me since this night (a month ago) and I don't know what to do - is there even a chance that he likes me too or was it just an ordinary thing for him to lie with a girl together on a party and on the next morning when we weren't even drunk anymore?
Sorry for the long text guys, I hope you can help me.
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I think you should definitely tell this guy that you like him, it sounds like you guys have a long history together and a pre existing friendship that you could build a relationship on. As to you asking him out 3 years ago I doubt he forgot about that thats not the sort of thing people just forget about, he said you guys could try so what happened after that you did not give any information as to that. Considering you guys were friends first and he likes to cuddle with you he probably likes you. Its even more of an indication that he likes you since he cuddled with you the next morning and did not consider it a one night thing. Even if he does not like you it does not matter you have everything to gain and nothing to lose. Your single now and if he does not like you you remain single you have not lost anything but if he does like you then you gain a hopefully great relationship :). I would say definitely go for it you have everything to gain and nothing to lose.0
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