If I'm really interested in someone, I kinda want all of their attention and time. I don't really want to be together while two other girls are texting him for their next dates. I also wouldn't like the idea of the guy getting physical with other women at the same time i could be... I don't know, I just don't get it. What does everyone else think?
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I don't like it but it's not unfair. If I broke up with my boyfriend I would be open to dating multiple people although I do tend to focus on one person at once. Having too many options can also make it harder to focus on one.
For the first while it's fine to not be exclusive because why commit until you know the person and if you see long term potential. However if it's been more than 2-maybe 3 months and the guy isn't committing he clearly isn't that interested. I also think that you can determine within a few weeks if he will likely ask for a relationship or not.
All is fair in dating. Until the guy asks me for a commitment there is none so dating a few people could actually be smart because this way you don't get too emotionally invested in one person. Getting too invested too fast is a big problem.
Personally I won't have sex or even any touching of the genitals until we are in a relationship. If we are not in a relationship it is fair for a guy to be dating or hooking up with others. If he likes me enough he will stop and commit to me. And if not his loss. I'm not going to spend months on a string. That's why it's better to tread lightly with the physical until you become exclusive.0