So I went on a first date, we connected super well... absolutely no awkwardness at all. At the end of the night we were joking around and playing the "are you nervous yet" game... I ended up giving him oral sex. I felt really horrible that I did that since I'm really not that kind of girl. I texted him the next morning pretty much saying that what I did was not me and that I feel like a complete whore. I also mentioned that I didn't want to ruin what could be. He responded saying that his view on me hasn't changed and that he can tell I'm not that type of girl. I wouldn't let him touch me down there at all. So my question is, is there still a possibility for a relationship or did I ruin that by giving him a blow job?
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I hate this idea that there has to be a specific time and you can't even enjoy your connection with one another without fearing of getting used or seen less. I knew of a girl that made a guy wait for 4 months and when it happened, he still dumped her... so it was a lost for her. I've also heard about a now married couple that got intimate already on the 3rd date.
Seriously, why can't people just do what they feel it's natural when they're ready (whether that's within months later, never, days later or on the next date).2