I don't have much experience with girls, am I ugly or not? how do I look? I have lost a lot of weight in recent years, how do I look now?

I'm in my mid-20's, i haven't officially had a girlfriend yet but i have been on dates and have had sex once with a friend with benefits, its a long story, done other physical stuff but still don't have much experience for a typical guy my age, and it's been more than a year since i last went on a date with a girl, i still go to the gym, exercise and work out, like 2 and a half years ago i weighed over 200 pounds, now i weigh 163lbs, also my height is 5'7, just thought i'd post some pics of how i used to be more fat and how i look more thinner now, the pics from top to bottom, the top pics are when i was fatter, basically the longer you go down the list of photos, the more recent the photos are of how i look, some of the photos are me with people at Conventions, celebrity people i met:
http://tinypic.com/m/id4xld/1
http://tinypic.com/m/id4xl5/1
http://tinypic.com/m/id4xlu/1
http://tinypic.com/m/id4xli/1
http://tinypic.com/m/id4zm8/1
http://tinypic.com/m/id4zg6/1
http://tinypic.com/m/id4x9d/1
http://tinypic.com/m/id4x9g/1
http://tinypic.com/m/id4xab/1
http://tinypic.com/m/id4xa8/1

Updates:
i want your complete dead-honest opinions about me!!!, even if it is harsh, i'd rather be told the cold harsh truth than have been fed a lie the whole time, and ya i used to be a waist 40 now i'm a waist 34!, but ya how do i look now?
i thought i would get more answers from girls, anyway, anybody else care to rate how i look?
Thanks for all of your answers, compliments, but I can't help but feel in the back of my head that a lot of you girls are saying this just to be nice to me, I really hope I am better looking than I think I am
Is my limited experience with girls better than no experience at all?
How do I stop feeling self conscious about my looks?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Hey man I think your gorgeous! You look very sweet and you got a love for comic bookS! By the way beauty is in the eye of the beholder. . people have different tastes. But you got a really nice look going:)

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What Girls Said 10

  • I think you're great looking! You've got a nice smile and good eyebrows. I think the only thing that may be holding you back from getting experience with girls is your self-esteem. You're not that over-weight person anymore, you're a handsome man- remember that.

    Congrats on the weight loss! :D

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  • Grow your hair out more. Try something like this: hairstyleholic.com/.../...y-Hairstyle-For-Mens.jpg or even thumbs2.modthesims.info/.../...-Salvatore-s243.jpg it would suit you a whole lot better than your current one I think.
    And try different style of clothing, like something a bit more classy.
    Keep working out too, don't stop.
    Otherwise you're quite alright :) 6/10. Personality can make for that difference too, if you're confident, assertive, and don't give a fuck. A bit of arrogance too.

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    • what parts of my body which i work out more physically? arms, legs, abs?

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    • Ok :) That will help.

    • also how important are a guys teeth to you? as in how straight they are?

  • I think you're handsome

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  • 6 or 7/10 :)
    Congrats on your weight loss! :)

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    • so I can be able to get a girlfriend based on how I look?

    • Lol yes, of course. But you need to have more confidence!! I know for me, a confident man is a turn on. :)
      Just don't be afraid to approach women. A lot of women are shy. :/ or they for some reason prefer the "traditional" way of the man approaching them.
      I asked one guy out and he rejected me, so after that, I just didn't try anymore. But I'm just so shy sometimes. No need to be, just fake it till you make it. :)

    • Do you think i would stand a chance with white girls?

  • I loooove the Ninja Turtle photo most!! You're cute. You get a 7 :-)

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  • for me attitude is more better than looks.. actually not all girls like looks they prefer attitude.. so I hop don't pull down yourself..

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    • i believe they would have to matter to an extent like the guy takes care of himself

  • You are very good looking i must say 7/10 congrats on your weight loss as well

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    • :O how could i forget! Lol

    • and i could to meet the original Red Rangers Sentai actor there as well, the guy who played him in the original Power Rangers japanese counterpart Zyuranger!

  • Well done on the weight loss!!! U are cute!! Definitely better than a lot of guys in here, now work in your self esteem and confidence and you will go far.

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    • Thanks!!!, also will my height being 5'7 put me at a disadvantage?

    • Not at all it's all about how u arty yourself. Thanks for the MH ☺️

  • i would give you an average, not ugly at all but at the same time not hot or cute

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    • but congrats on the weight loss!!!, that takes dedication and very hard work!!!, very well worth it!!

  • Definitely not ugly!

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    • How do you recommend I raise my confidence and self-esteem?

    • Remind yourself often about your good points, not just in looks but your personality and what makes you a good person. Remind yourself of the good points and why you would be a catch for women.
      When you see crappy boyfriends, remind yourself why a girl who got you would be lucky unlike the poor girl with the crappy boyfriend.
      There's a fine line between being cocky and confidence, because cocky people are just over confident. Be cocky about your good points. Also, when you fake confidence, it really does start being true after a while.

What Guys Said 5

  • I think you look good bud. You are more built than I am + taller.. so I think you should be alright

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  • average looking

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  • Congrats on the weight loss but the thing holding you back is self esteem and confidence.

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  • better looking than me, lol

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  • although i'm a straight guy, i'd rate you an average, definetley not ugly, well in the sense that the way you look now, congrats on the weight loss!!!, but at the same time not a stud

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