So i met this girl that at the beginning was really into me, I mean really. Now she is gone abroad for a few weeks and I noticed that she is not responsive as she used to be, though she does send a wink everyday. She told me she is really busy with her friends that she went to school with and met new people and is attending a wedding and things like that. I understand she can't give me the time of the day but she doesn't seem overly interested, even she sends kisses and skypes once in a while. What should I do? She knows I do not like people that play hard to get or hold me on a leash and I am honest I hate the feeling of being left behind especially because she was so sweet to me at the beginning. Should I give her time or should I call her out on her behaviour and potentially risk everything?
I am confused and what should I do now?
What Girls Said 1
You can ask her nicely what's up? Be open and honest.0
What Guys Said 1
You sound.. How shall I put this. okay you sir need to look at it this way. Chicks want attention, affection, love, and money! Aaa and youuuuu! Are not going give her all of those things right? Right, okay. Sooooo if she know what you like as well will she be sent to jail if she doesn't for fill it? Of course not. Here meet this friend called obligation. You see this word here means you two don't owe each other not a god damn thing. She don't owe a ps4, flirty behavior, attention, and what ever and you don't owe her anything either. What you can do how ever is not focus on just one chick in your life cause as you see it doesn't do you any good and move on with this girl you with. Still talk and what ever but still look out for those who's are around you.0
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