So there's this guy who showed serious interest in me yet cancelled on the dates HE asked me on because he was busy...
When he cancelled the second time, it was the last time we talked. I said "dude if you aren't interested its all good, I understand"
and then he said its not that! I'm trying to do well in college. He's been sending mixed messages and I wanted an honest answer.. but maybe he decided to give me that answer in a "silent" way.
He ignored the text I sent him the night he said he would be free, after canceling that day. And I thought to myself, maybe he was just tired or something.. so after a couple days (yesterday) I texted him and he didn't even reply to me once. Omg I feel so stupid! I wish I could go back in time and have not texted him. Now I'm not talking to him ever again until he makes the effort to talk to me.
I'm so embarrassed :/
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Just mirror his behavior. I'm not saying you should play games, I'm just saying, he's not putting out any effort so why should u? Stop sending him text messages and don't call him either. If he permanently disappears then just move on,(and I can assure u that life goes on and u will get over him) but if he does come back around, honestly thats up to u what u want to do, but I just think that u should stop reaching out to him and u should stop feeling bad too... no need to feel bad. It happens. Guys will be guys. can't let his actions manage your emotions.0