"Don't judge too quickly if you don't know the entire story." It's like you're a broken record. We got it. This reminded me of this photo, haha s2.quickmeme.com/.../...38856e83372a483744489e.jpg
On a more serious note, fine I get that you've been cheated one before, but that doesn't mean you should continue this line of cheaters and be one. You get a boyfriend, you lose the fwb. You don't like the boyfriend, you break up with the dude and then go back to your fwb. Not cheat! Because it makes you no better than the ones who did this to you before. "I've been hurt in the past/cheated on" is not an excuse to hurt other people. We all go through bullshit in life, doesn't mean we have to give it to others too.
So make a decision. You want the friends with benefits (look I mean just for fun til you find another boyfriend) , then break up with your boyfriend and leave it like this. Don't make it any worse.
You wanna stay with the boyfriend, you gotta tell him or at least END the friends with benefits thing. After this, you can do what I say next. Also maybe he simply doesn't enjoy performing oral, it may not be you. Maybe he likes actual intercourse. You could also take a shower before and ask him to do it again. Because even if you've cleaned yourself in the morning for example, you're still gonna go through heat outside, or maybe you'll do some exercising, so even though the vagina has the property to clean itself doesn't mean it also releases natural soap or perfume smell or strawberry taste.
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I've been with my boyfriend alittle over a year I graced the feeling of being eaten out. But he didn't really like it because he saw no point in it he didn't see the pleasure inbit but I gave him head whenever he wanted it even tho I didn't see the pleasure in that. He's gotten back from a weekend away and we've fucked twice and he's eaten me out while fingering my pussy and ass at the same time, twice and he's gone for near enough to half a hour and he's had me cumming in his mourh and it dripping down his face and beard
at least 6 times he's had me dripping in cum and biting my lip trying to hold back my screams. He dont do it all the time but fuck when he does God damn. If i had it every night it probably wouldn't be so intense. But don't be a slut and screw around for it if he dont shoe he loves you and won't eat you out leave him. Tell him your a self centered bitch you have been cheating on him and that it's not him it you tell him he deserves better because he does you say you got cheated on well doesn't give you the right.
@rthomas43 - perfect description of the situation
If you are together with a person, you shouldn't have a friend with benefits. I don't care what the "entire story" is, it's wrong either way. You refuse to sleep with him, he refuses to eat you out, not everybody wants to do everything. You could totally figure it out. if only you weren't a selfish, empathy-lacking hoe who only cares about her own pleasure. You srsly cheat on the person you should love because he isn't into oral? Either break up with him or suck it up and get over it, don't play games like this.
In all my relationships I've never cheated on someone - I think it's so wrong and my parents even said they'd throw me out the house if I ever did :,)
Somehow I'm failing to believe the legitimacy of your story and while having two people on the go when one is your boyfriend isn't particularly right. If your boyfriend is aware of this other guy and is ok with what's going on then each to their own. When if you've been cheated on all your life then you're still in the wrong. If it were true. I don't think doing something you've experienced and disliked to someone else is particularly mature (if you were telling the truth). The only reason I'm saying this is because if your boyfriend doesn't know then first of all he should - if he decides to leave then that's his choice, if not then all is well. In regards to the question with sexual activity - tell your boyfriend to man up and try using various products when you wash to make the smell and taste better.
As a little extra though - I don't believe the legitimacy of this story completely and by your wording it sounds like you want to spark a reaction - so this reply is all I'll say.
All you said was - Don't judge too quickly if you don't know the entire story.
First problem - Eating out - not everyone is expert, so if he wants to learn , he would else leave him or have sex with him for pleasure or teach him how to use finger to pleasure you..
Second unmentioned problem - I have been cheated before but I am open to the fact that lot of people in life are asshole , but there are 7 billion people out of which 3.5 billion are females and at least out of 3.5 billion people, 80 million are in my age , even if out of 80 million girls , 20 millions are not asshole, I still have lot of girls who will be good and not cheat..
PS: Leave your bf, you dont love him. You can find other friend (s) with benefits to please you down there..
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Actually, I feel it's disgusting, I mean you are a "virgin" depicts innocence mostly but on the other hand you have friend with benefits other than your bf. I am sorry to say but it feels pretty fucked up. Although I don't know the story and I don't know if you both are that open, but if he is not and you are then it is pretty bad and for that case just leave your bf or tell him about it instead of lying to him. You are old enough to know that relationships base on trust and not lies. Anyways, good luck with your whatever drama.
Wow, having a relationship and cheating? That's cold. I mean, if you're honest from the start and kind of say "I want an open relationship" and the guy KNOWS this and decides to stick around, it's a different story. But otherwise, damn.
To answer your question though, people have different taste buds and preferences. Some people like ice-cream, some don't. Showers, clean lingerie and a good diet will help you. Eat pineapple. Seriously.
Now back to the REAL issue- double timing, seriously?
I'd love to hear this "story" that's the motivator here. I don't approve of what you're doing, but maybe you could tell your side of the story before I jump to harsh conclusions?You know i've been cheated on by every guy i've ever dated and because of that I know how bad it hurts, but if for once you've found a guy who isn't cheating on you yet you're still doing shit with someone else you clearly don't care how this guy would feel if someone was to tell him or he found out, if you did you would have dropped the friends with benefits instead of sticking with him as well, so what your BF don't like the cherry/tuna/rose whatever you wanna call it, it's still no reason to be doing this to him, so what if you friends with benefits eats you out, you say you care about love more then pleasure yet your cheating because your boyfriend won't munch on your nectar, I think you need to just drop both and figure out what kind of person you want to be in life, a girl who'd rather have a guy on the side or a faithful loving GF maybe oneday Wife to some guy
You don't want to be judged but we are on an opinion website. So... you are being judged so to speak and although you're a virgin, you are a slut. You set yourself up honey.
memecrunch.com/.../image.pngSorry, what? I don't buy your virgin act, not one bit. Break up with your boyfriend, this is leading nowhere since you just cheat on him. And keep the friends with benefits, you deserve each other. Come on, clear what's left of your mind.
Stop lying to yourself and us.So basically you started a relationship with that guy and have been cheating on him since with the other.
ANYWAYS you should just take a shower or something beforehand.Questions like this are the reason I am leaving this site. It confuses me that these situations are real. I realize no one is perfect but cheating and then complaining about something so frivolous.
I think a better question would be "Why am I cheating on my BF?"
I want to know what you look like and where you learned to think cheating was okay?Eat Pineapple. Its supposed to 'sweeten' your 'taste'. That's what I do, and I haven't had any complaints ;) Quite the opposite actually ;P lol
Why do you have a boyfriend and friends with benefits at the same time?
Your bigger problem is not that your bf doesn't want to eat you out. Its that you have 2 guys in your life.It isn't the right thing to do in my opinion you know.. if i was that bf of yours and somehow managed to know that you have a friend with benefits that does oral to you aswell while i didn't like it. Id feel betrayed by you and sad. Id probably not forgive you for doing so and break up.. Now i dont know the entire thing but thats as far as my thoughts can go atm.
Maybe your boyfriend doesn't like eating you out because your vagina has that "nasty slut" taste.
You should break up with your boyfriend, because you're a liar for saying you'll be exclusive and then going behind his back to cheat.
Or you can break up because you have the friends with benefits as backup until you find a boyfriend that is willing to eat you out. Either way you should break up, because you're not doing yourself and more importantly your boyfriend any favors.Have you told your boyfriend that your friends with benefits enjoys eating you out? Maybe that would motivate him.
Well umm if you think your bf would be mad about you having a friend with benefits on the side then yeah... that's kinda wrong. If getting your pussy licked is such a big deal than just break up with him. You don't necessarily need to be in a relationship in order to get your sexual or emotional needs fulfilled.
I think you should break up with your boyfriend, he doesn't deserve to be cheated on like this.
It doesn't matter if you know your friends with benefits before your bf, that is cheating. You should've stop that friends with benefits thing or dump your bf. You can't have them both. This is not ok.
You're a virgin and already a slut smh and people say their the ones that are pure, most likely to respect themselves and least likely to have STDs.
If u love ur bf stay, but u can't have both, u can't have a friends with benefits with a bf, that's totally wrong, if ur willing to do that to ur bf u obviously don't like him that much so do what is best, if pleasure is that important to u then it's important and do somthing about it
this may just be me
but if i found out my wife/gf was cheating on me going to prison just may be worth getting a chance to go to her funeralIF you BF says it tastes nasty next time try getting a blow pop like a cherry flavor one and see if he will use it with you, you and him both should love that, I do make it more fun and something different...
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