My boyfriend HATES eating me out while my friend with benefits LOVES it? (Page 2)
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People just have different sexual preferences. Date the fuck buddy maybe.
He's not looking for a relationship, nor my boyfriend doesn't do anything wrong to me besides he can't please me part.
Find a guy that will please you and wants a relationship
No matter what "your story" might be that we might not understand wrong doesn't come with justification nobody deserves to be cheated on.. so you need to find somebody who can give you satisfaction in both areas since it is obviously important to you.. if you dnt want to leave ur bf because of this than realize there's more to a person's like their heart than your reason for having two guys at 1 time..
*sigh*
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Just date someone whose preferences meet yours. Your bf seems, he doesn't like you at all. Your friends and benefits seems, he isn't ready for relationship. Cut both of them.
When you eat out with your bf who pays, and when you eat out with your friends with benefits who pays?
Nobody pays!
I wouldn't do that to someone like her unless I got paid and I'd probably use the money to hire another guy to do it for me!!
Your young go with the one you like, but remeber you can't have your cake and icicing too, because someone is going to be hurt and your the one who takes the blame
I got my heart broken too many time that I refuse to believe there's someone who doesn't cheat.
I guess im the exception then
Really hope there are exceptions on this planet.
"but remeber you can't have your cake and icicing too"
Haven't you heard of an iced cake... get it right mate, it's have your cake and eat it.
If nobody pays, that is called stealing.
Ur bf is a loser. Yes cheat on him he deserves it. The guys here are all psychopaths who want to bring women down online trash. Any guy that won't go down on a girl is a selfish evil jerk who deserves to be cheated on. Men are scum and deserve to be cheated on.
Tone it down a bit.
If you want to fuck with people, you have to make your trolling believable.
I agree it's selfish on his part. The fact I blow him all the time and he doesn't want to return the favor.
LOL!!
Quit giving him blow jobs!!! Quit cooking for him!!! He ain't your hubby! Maybe then he'll do something for you...
You've repeated so many times how you've been cheated on in the past to justify your lack of respect towards your boyfriend even a relationship. In one comment you added that your friends betray you, that just shows what kind of character you have and I actually feel sorry for you. I agree with some saying this post was just a way to get a reaction or a better word would be attention. How about you try learning how to forgive your past and stop punishing the boyfriend for what another man did...
attention? that's for the lack of better word due to narrow knowledge. If I want attention why am I anon?
this is obviosuly trolling. if you had a friends with benefits that eats out asses, he would know that ass never tastes good. if its unclean, it tastes bad. if its clean it doesn't taste at all
Why do I need to troll? That's what they say, I don't know I don't taste myself.
LOL!!
To be honest... virgin or not, YOU ARE still a slut. It doesn't matter about your shitty excuse of a sob story. Boohoo grow the fuck up and get over it. Being cheated on does not give you the excuse to be unfaithful. If you 'loved' your boyfriend so much you would have never continued your friends with benefits relations. Who cares your bf won't eat you out, shit I wouldn't either. What guy wants to eat out of a slut foul another guys spit saliva. It seems to me the only reason you're with your bf is because your friends with benefits doesn't want a relationship. & please don't comment back talking about your "story". I don't give a fuck about your story. You are a whore. Point blank simple. And if your feelings were hurt after reading this, GOOD, that was my intention. I feel no sympathy for you that a lot of these comments are slut shaming you. You deserve it. Have a nice one.
You need to grow up. Dump the boyfriend and find someone you're emotionally and physically into who will please you. (Or stay with your friends with benefits) but you NEED to break it off with your BF. I don't care what the “story” is. Both of you obviously aren't right for each other so it's better to break it off then suffer through all of this. Do what's right. You'll feel better and be happier and so will your boyfriend.
You are a virgin but your behaviour is very slutty. I do not think the issue is him not wanting to eat you out I think the issue is you trying to juggle 2 guys at the same time.
Don't judge too quickly if you don't know the entire story.
How many times are you gonna say that?
I don't need to know the rest of the story honey. I am not changing my opinion. If it is such a deal breaker then leave. I once voiced that opinion once.
Have you thought he wants actual sex? Some guys like sex more than oral sex. I have a really hard time believing you are a still a virgin.
He was too impatient to do foreplay and make me wet, therefore his penis can't get in.
Well he sounds he doesn't care about you. Why would stay if you are unhappy?
Your bf is an egotistical scumbag. He doesn't deserve you. ANY GUY WHO DOESN'T EAT HIS GF OUT DESERVES TO BE CHEATED ON.
Yup I think it's the act of selfishness to refuse to return the favor I give him.
Nobody deserves to be cheated on just because they don't want to do something sexual.
Can I get a business card, i need more troll connections.
@The_Eternal_Emperor I agree with you. he might grow to like it which would be great but really different people like different things. not only are you ad him different people but eating out a girl and sucking cock are way different so you can't expect him to do that because you do it for him. I like to eat my girlfriends pussy but I can imagine why someone might not like it. imagine if he liked torture sex and he let you torture him but you didn't let him torture you. can he blame you for that? cheating on him for something like that is shitty and you don't deserve your boyfriend. I think you should break up with him because obviously you won't be a good girl for him to be with.
I'm also confused. did you let both do sexual things to you whilst you were in a relationship?
Yes. She is a whore.
^^ This. Ahahaha :D
@the_champ : my fav today
I think you have what you need girl: a boyfriend and a friend who would serve your need. Just make sure they never meet though. I won't judge since I know how it feels.
HAHA... immorality at its best, : )
@BeardedDude You won't understand until you love someone to death, and they betray you, until you meet too much asshole that makes you thing "Everybody cheats". Don't judge too quickly!
With such logic it seems like you've already turned your back on the world and given up faith.
Not everybody cheats, : (
Cheating doesn't make up for cheating. "Eye for an eye" doesn't work. You turn the other cheek. If you learned from the experience you would take that pain and realize that you don't want to cause it to another, : (
Its the logic that abused people use to abuse others, we make are own decisions. Hurting others because you were hurt is immoral on two levels. One you can empathize yet you reject the chance at compassion then secondly you choose to hurt another to make yourself feel good, its a double wound.
@BeardedDude "Not everybody cheats, : (
Cheating doesn't make up for cheating. "Eye for an eye" doesn't work. You turn the other cheek. If you learned from the experience you would take that pain and realize that you don't want to cause it to another, : ( " This <3 I have been hurt as well and I know that everyone is not the same and that what a person does to you is their karma, how you react is yours :) revenge only hurts the person already in pain
you are a virgin and has boyfriend AND friend with benefits? wow.
maybe your boyfriend wants "the real sex" than oral sex?
You know what? I got my heart broken too many time that I refuse to believe there's someone who doesn't cheat.
We tried and he doesn't want any foreplay he was so impatient and want to get straight into it right away. Result: can't get in.
If he's not willing to eat you out (properly) then he shouldn't get jealous that you get someone else to do it, talk to him and ask him to either go down on you more or for him accept that you need to keep your FWB.
I don't even need him to go down on me and make me orgasm or anything. I just need him to at least try licking it and I will like it all no matter how horrible he does it. It's just selfish on his part that he won't go down on me when I do that to him all the time.
And ok, I will do that. Thanks.
It wouldn't be fair if you had to give up receiving oral just to be with him, and it's selfish of him not to reciprocate if you're giving him bj's.
I blow him til he cum and swallow it, sadly no favor returned.. l
You probably taste like the other guys dick. That's why.
Fix your shit.
Let's reverse the roles. I couldn't handle a gf who hates giving bjs. I'd probably stick with the friends with benefits until the gf got over her sexual hangups.
you have a boyfriend and a friend with Benefits? at the same time?
Please don't judge too quickly if you don't know the entire story.
no, no its cool. I mean im all for Poly!
But going back to the eating out problem... has your boyfriend given you real details as to why? In most cases men have a fear of eating out, and are a bit grossed out. I know because I was one for a while... but then after two long term relationships I really, really learned to love everything about it!
He says it tastes weird, and he doesn't like the taste of it. He also says he doesn't know what to do and how to eat me out (which I showed him how) but he still doesn't like it. I think it's not his thing...
However, my friend with benefits is a virgin too and I'm the first one he eats out too. He was very patient with it and learn how to do it and spend time working on it, unlike my boyfriend...
you could just talk with him? if it doesn't work, hold out on him the head your giving him.
Practices makes perfect, but if its not his thing... then its not his thing.
is your friend with benefits a girl?
No my friend with benefits is a guy.
I will try to talk to my bf about it... although I think he won't change his mind though.
ohh... okay.
talk to him, if he doesn't start going down on you then you should think of leaving the relationship. Everyone should be happy in their sexual relationship.
Try eating a low sugar high protein yogurt before bed and I read eating pineapple makes you sweet down there. Something about the enzymes. Take a cranberry vitamin. 👌