After how many dates with a girl can you tell her you like her?
Most Helpful Girl
Well what do you mean, "like her"? As in you want to be exclusive and date.. or as in a general compliment that you are liking who they are so far...
I don't think there's one specific answer. It all depends on the individuals and the chemistry between them. If after a good date or two you want to express that you enjoyed yourself and really like her, I personally think that's okay.
If you've gone on a few dates and things seem to be reciprocated, I think it's okay to have the talk. Just casually bring it up. Ask her what she's looking for (casual or serious thing) right now in her life, talk about what you want right now and feel the situation out to see if she's on the same page and go from there.
Get to the point where you both agree and decide to be exclusive with each other, or come to a point where you realize you want different things.
Either way, that IS what dating is and EVERYONE goes through it. So try not to over think things and stress yourself out. She's just a human like everyone else and she's not the last one on earth. Dating is experimenting and finding who you are compatible with while learning about yourself. Like what you really want and things you know you cannot deal with in the future.0