Should I ask about our status before we have sex?

I'm25 and he's 36... I date this guy for almost 4 months. And i want to know, is he serious about this relationship or not? He knows that i'm virgin. And he never rush... We almost had sex last night. But he haven't ask me to be his gf yet. He always text me first , then he stop texting me. So i text him first , and he reply me every time. Is that normal?(Recently He seems to be busy and stress from work) So should i ask him "what are we now?" , I don't want to push him away... What u guys think?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Yes, you should ask him to clarify his position.

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What Guys Said 2

  • Definitely make him commit before you lose your virginity to him.

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  • Yup always a good idea. Don't want to find out the hard way that you're the other woman.

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What Girls Said 2

  • Of course!! Please be sure to do that :)

    Otherwise some guys might assume you want something casual so you have to speak up and don't be scared.

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  • ask him first to avoid wasting time and tears

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