We haven't done anything in about a month because I hurt him and he wanted space (he caught feelings).
I've been making it up to him by cutting ties with other men in my life if they are more than friends and I even got a small gift for him (which he knows about) on Friday and asked to give it to him. It being Friday, he already had plans for the weekend but assured me he'd try to come see me and he let me know he probably couldn't spend my birthday with me because of work (Monday).
Las night he was out drinking with his friends after his car club had a show and told me he'd see me Sunday (today). I didn't get a text back from him so I politely asked him what's up and he responded with "I'm working today :("
I said "whys it so hard to give you a present and treat you to dinner >.< have a great day at work though!"
No response at the moment.
He's giving me mixed signals as he's the one who offered to see me and acknowledged my birthday without me telling him.
We also been flirting a lot the past couple days. He seems to go from hot to cold. And he does have my Find my iPhone password so I know when he's tracking me and he has been lately and no I wasn't any where I shouldn't have been.
I don't know what to say bk to him...
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You need to leave him alone. He caught feelings. You know he has and you're trying to have the same closeness you had before. If you want to fix it, you have to give him time to get over the feelings. He's not sending mixed signals. You are.
If he still has feelings and you kind of want to be with him. Then this all makes sense. But right now it just sounds like you don't want to let go for some selfish reasons.0
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