I think I am over him but as soon as I hear from him, I feel like I'm just not over it. But I have a new bf and it's been 2 years since my first love and I parted ways. Why is it that I seem to still have feelings for him and why do I keep comparing subsequent relationships to him. :(
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I had my First Love when I was 13-16, he was my age too. We had a beautiful thing going, learning and experimenting, along with 'Experiencing,' making it more magical than anything else I had ever gone through while-------Trying to get over him when we did finally split. It was hard as hell, painful as well, like a knife in my heart, and Every schmo from Here to Idaho I would go out with, I would Constantly Compare them to him. No one would Do, no one was good enough, and I just couldn't seem to shake him, shake the feeling, and my Chapter to this fairytale ending had no Closure in sight...
Six years later, living on my own, we met up (We had a few other times to talk, nothing else... He had another), but This Particular nite, I don't know if it was That I looked sexier to him, that I had Now my own pad, but the next thing I know, after we returned from the Best Western And a few drinks under our belts, we ended up reminiscing again, and it was Then that my 'Closure' Came, along with the realization that I didn't feel anything, not even for sex, but knew right Then------I was Totally Over him. I could finally move on, and I think too, that being He was marrying the other half of what I could never be with him, that he could now----Move on himself, walking down the aisle and into a new life with his new wife.
What you have is most likely a Rebound Robert, sweetie, for you are 'Comparing' him like I always did to Dan, my only man. You are Not over your 'Ex,' and haven't found closure, and if the Ex that is Marking your heart Still with his own X In your heart, having no intentions of going back with you except maybe for friends with benefits, then Stop accepting his contacts. You can't move on with another if you have this Other from the past, putting a wedge in your life.
The next time he tries to give you a shout, tell him to either" Poop or get off the pot. You still love him and either you both get back together or-----lOSE MY NUMBER.
Good luck. xx0