Ok been dating this guy for 4 months. We are not official. Last thing he said was lets keep dating. He hasn't called in 2 weeks. I don't know what's up but I am waiting to give him some time to contact me with an explanation. He told me long ago he had trust issues because all his gfs cheat when he away. He is military too. I am in military training school and last night my classmates and I went out. One of my male classmates invited me to dance. We danced well together and he tried to kiss me. I pushed him away and said no. He only managed to kiss my cheek. I feel bad. Even though we aren't together and I haven't heard from him. I feel like I did something wrong.
My guy already told me before this 2 week abeense he was really into me. I don't know if he freaked out. Its not like him... he is very open honest and blunt. I assume if he was done hed call and tell me. he's always been honest from day 1. Why do I feel like such a slut?
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You are not official, so no, you didn't do anything wrong... at all... and this is coming from someone pretty conservative in terms of relationships. If it's been 4 whole months and you are not official yet... and he hasn't called you in two weeks... that's even more reason for you to be able to see what else is out there. You shouldn't have to wait around until this guy feels like calling you. I'd be very upset if a guy did this to me... but then again I'm only going by what is written. You don't owe him any loyalty until you are official.0