I hooked up with someone last March. We left school for the summer but kept in touch over the summer to sext. He, later in the summer, started to say he liked talking to me, thought I was attractive and cool, and that he might want to take me on a date. I always said I wasn't much of a dater, I didn't like it, and that I was "one of those never dates chicks". Over August he disappeared a little bit; we talked sometimes, but mostly did sexy snapchats. When we went back to school we hooked up again. He was into eye contact and gentle kisses and cuddling; he also likes when a girl spends the night, but I didn't either time. Today we saw each other on the bus but didn't say hi (kind of far away on a packed bus). After we texted and I asked if he was still interested - I mentioned I always backtalked about dating because it makes me nervous and I don't want to get hurt. He started using short responses and "idk" as replies. Basically he said he wasn't down to date because he also isn't good about getting hurt. I told him I was never going to have hurt him. I'm not sure if we're still doing the causal hookup thing or nothing at all. He hasn't responded to me in several hours. Not sure what happened. What should I do?
- You hurt him, leave him alone0% (0)14% (1)10% (1)Vote
- Try again later33% (1)29% (2)30% (3)Vote
- He's trying to be strong and avoidant67% (2)29% (2)40% (4)Vote
- He isn't interested at all0% (0)0% (0)0% (0)Vote
- Just sleep together and that's it0% (0)28% (2)20% (2)Vote
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He feels you aren 't interested. I doubt he's particularly hurt about it. He' likely investing his time.. elsewhere!0