I've been on a couple dates and all. I've never had a relationship, but I don't think that really matters for this problem. I workout because I like to keep in shape and I have a job, go to school, am in the military, and am generally a good hearted dude. My problem is that I feel like a terrible person because I don't like that girls that are really really below my standards are the only ones that give me the time of day. I've gone a dates with them and I was never rude or an ass. They're generally nice people, but I never connected to them on a emotional or physical level. I feel like a bad person for asking why heavier girls are the only ones interested in me. I know there's more to looks, but still. I've got mediocre standards (average) yet, I have to go as low as I can to get a date or have a girl willingly interact with me. It's sad. I feel bad when people say I'm too picky or I'm not giving them a chance, but it's not my fault I don't connect with a girl whether she is big or skinny.
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You are not a bad person at all! I think that what you're feeling is completely natural and understandable. No, looks aren't everything, but yes, they are important. You need to have at least a little physical attraction to be happy with someone. From what you've said about yourself, it sounds like any girl would love to be with you, but perhaps the one's who are "chasing" you are the ones that you aren't interested in. It's possible, and probably true, that girls that you would want to date aren't as forward as the other girls.0